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How do youprotect yourself?

Long before we had words, our bodies learned ways to stay safe. Some of us leave. Some hold on. Some carry everything. Some take charge. Some get it exactly right.

These shapes were intelligent answers to what was happening then, and many of us still live inside them. This reflection shows which ones you lean on, what each one has been protecting, and one small thing to try.

Before you begin

Five ways the body learns to protect.

Everyone carries all five, in different measure. None of them is a flaw. Each began as a way of surviving, and each carries a gift.

LeavingThe one who goes far awayIts gift: sensitivity, imagination, closeness to nature.
MergingThe one who holds onIts gift: warmth and attunement, a love people can feel.
EnduringThe one who carriesIts gift: steadiness, loyalty and patience.
Taking chargeThe one who stays in controlIts gift: strength, courage and natural authority.
Getting it rightThe one who does it properlyIts gift: integrity, devotion and a love of quality.

The reflection

Fifteen quiet statements.

Read each one and notice what your body says before your mind decides. Choose the answer that feels most true today. About eight minutes.

Begin →A reflection, not a diagnosis. Nothing you answer is stored or sent.

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What you lean on most

Everyone carries all five, in different measure. Most of us return to one or two when life presses. None of them is wrong. Each began as a way of surviving, and each carries a gift.

Who stays at Dojo Bianco

People who carry a great deal, at a moment that matters.

Some come because something needs attention. Others because something new wants to emerge. For five days the whole hotel closes around them, and the work is shaped around their history, the season and the people they are.

There is no one you are required to become.

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Inspired by body-oriented psychotherapy: the work of Wilhelm Reich, Alexander Lowen and John Pierrakos, and Steven Kessler's five personality patterns. Written by us, in our own words.

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